10 Best Kinky BDSM Toys and Bondage Gear for Beginners


BDSM is often mistakenly believed to be an acronym for bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism. However, those four letters have many meanings, including discipline, submission, sensation, and more. It is best to think of BDSM as a blend of sexually-oriented practices that can include everything from role-playing and humiliation play to sensation play and more. It is usually all about the fantasies of those involved in the sexual acts, whether individually, in coupled sex, or even groups.

Naturally, it is helpful to have good BDSM toys and bondage gear that help to bring those fantasies to life. Some of the more common BDSM sex toys include bondage gear, sex bed restraints, bondage toys, gag balls, and any number of costumes. In this article, we'll look at 10 of the best collections of kink toys and BDSM toys, and kits to help you get started in the world of sex play known as BDSM. If you are already enjoying these practices, then this list of BDSM sex toys will enhance whatever sort of bondage gear or kinky sex toys you already have!

BDSM Kit UTIMI

Think of this as the ultimate collection of bondage gear. Made of safe and strong nylon, it is designed for comfort as well as fun. It has been designed with scientific principles in mind and even features bondage rope and straps long enough to install underneath a bed to ensure discretion at all times.

The kit can be considered complete as it includes wrist and ankle cuffs and straps, a blindfold, and tickler with a paddle handle for gentle spanking.

Whether you have years of experience with BDSM toys or are just starting to build your collection, this is a great foundational kit that will allow you to enjoy making fantasies a reality.

PALOQUETH 10 Piece BDSM Set

Ideal for both beginners and experienced enthusiasts, this is a full bed restraint set that includes a few kink toys as well as essential bondage gear.

The kit includes a gag ball, collar and leash, handcuffs, nipple clamps, ankle shackles, cross straps, a feather tickler, a blindfold, and 10m of rope. With this kit, it is easier than ever to make the most of sex bed restraints fantasies. It features easy to use and well-designed pieces that take any of the frustration and hassle out of bondage play. Using leather and metal, every component is made to be comfortable, even the gag ball and bondage rope. Cuffs are lined and adjustable, and the rope is soft and supple while offering strength and durability for even the most elaborate restraints. The kit also includes a flogger and a blindfold.

This is one of the most complete sets of sex bed restraints and BDSM toys available and would be a great upgrade for the experienced or a premium first set for beginners.

MISSTU 10 Piece Sex Bed Restraints and BDSM Toys

Allow BDSM fantasies to run wild with this comprehensive set of kinky sex toys and bondage gear. This ten-piece set includes a full set of sex bed restraints that includes 16 feet of cotton bondage rope for even the most complex restraints. The set also includes a gag ball, flogger, blindfold, collar and leash, ankle and wrist shackles (made of leather but plushly lined for comfort), a cross strap for hog-tie positions, and a dainty tickler with paddle handle.

Whether purchased as a surprise gift for a lover or to enhance your collection of kinky toys and bondage gear, this offers another option for experimentation. A comprehensive set of gear, it stores discreetly in a black bag that will even allow you to bring your fun with you wherever you go!

Double Couple BDSM Restraint

If you have a whole set of fetish toys and bondage gear, but you are looking to up your game where sex bed restraints are concerned, this wrist, thigh, leg, hand, and ankle restraint set is an ideal solution. Exquisitely designed to fit most, it features a hand and ankle restraint system that is worn comfortably but which limits movement.

Pulled over the head, the four-point system connects to ankle shackles and wrist cuffs (both lined for comfort) to allow a partner to be placed into a hog-tied position.

If you are eager to have a bit of experimentation in your sex life, this goes well beyond the basic BDSM sex toys and bondage gear. Equal parts kink toy and sex bed restraints, this restraint allows far more than the traditional hog-tie position. Get creative, and always in comfort when you use this unique bondage gear.

H’NH Ball Gag

One of the most iconic kinds of BDSM sex toys is the gag ball, but they are not always well-designed, comfortable, or even safe. This black silicone gag ball will make for hours of excitement and offers an adjustable fit and premium materials.

Designed to fit all, it uses easy to clean silicone for the ball and straps that connect it to the adjustable leather collar. The narrow strap of the collar makes it comfortable for all, and it can be adjusted for even more fun.

When you are eager to invest in a premium set of bondage gear, or you just want to have some fun with a kink toy, the gag ball rates as one of the simplest and easiest bondage toys to choose from. Begin to explore your kinky side with this one piece and choose from black, pink, or red – or all three – to have some fun.

Rekink BDSM Whip

Another of the most iconic of all BDSM toys is the flog or whip. However, a lot of people get turned off by their first experience with this type of kink toy because they buy a cheaply made option. They might dislike the intense sting that rigid, cheap materials cause, or they may not like the design of a cheaper plastic handle.

This premium flog, or whip, will change all of that, and it rates as one of the most important BDSM sex toys to bring into your collection. Designed like a riding crop, it features only premium materials. A braided leather handle with strap ensures that it remains firmly in hand, as well as offering control and comfort. The soft suede strands of the whip will never create that unwelcome sting but can be used with more intensity for those who know what they want from their kink toys. Store this in the nicely ornamental included storage bag, and you'll feel your set of BDSM sex toys is finally complete.

Doc Johnson Bondage Rope

Whether you are experienced in BDSM, or you are a beginner, you quickly learn that bondage rope is essential in your set of bondage sex toys and bondage gear. However, not all ropes are alike, and if you and your partner are really into elaborate restraints, you'll find you appreciate higher quality cotton ropes more than anything else. This super-soft, cotton bondage rope is remarkably gentle on the skin (even with tighter restraints), and at 32 feet, it lets you create almost any sort of knots and bindings.

Designed in the Japanese style, it is available in multiple colors (including red, black, and purple). It is 100% cotton and incredibly plush and soft. This is sure to become a favorite bondage rope but is also essential for bondage gear, sex bed restraints, and pairs well with any BDSM sex toys.

Sexy Slave O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps

Men and women alike can find plenty of BDSM fun with this unique bondage gear. The adjustable collar is fitted with a silicone ring that adapts to her mouth or his penis and can be tightened (comfortably) to enhance submission play. Like only the best BDSM toys, this one does a few things at once, and dangling from the ends of the gag are sturdy chains fitted with nipple clamps.

Gags, collars, and nipple clamps are essentials in bondage gear, and this collar allows one lover to control the other, fulfilling fantasies and enhancing pleasure. If you are eager to enhance your collection of kink toys or bondage toys, this is a must-have, and particularly for the submissive.

Paloqueth Sex Bed Restraints System

Think of this as the home gym equivalent in bondage gear. This well-designed system features two straps that mount easily to the top and bottom of the bed. These bed restraints are made of durable nylon and are fitted with rings to which you connect the (included) ankle and wrist cuffs. The softly lined cuffs can then connect to the o-rings on the restraints at each end of the bed.

Imagine the positions and fantasies that can be played out with such an adaptable set of sex bed restraints and bondage gear. Because no bondage is complete without a bit of teasing, this set comes with a premium silk blindfold and a softer than soft tickler.

When you are ready to up your BDSM game and ensure any BDSM toys are put to use, these sex bed restraints are ideal.

UTIMI Blindfold

Not all BDSM toys have to involve complex straps or bindings. The ultimate bondage gear or kink toy can be as simple as a blindfold. This high-quality ribbon blindfold is made of ultra-soft, silken materials and is wide enough to cover the upper half of the face.

Beautifully tied, it adds that touch of elegance and even beauty to your collection of BDSM sex toys or bondage toys.

Now you know some of the finest sex bed restraints and bondage toys to add to your collection or get you started on the road to BDSM fun. Have fun and experiment using some of these high-quality items to make your fantasies come true.